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Here are 10 sex tips to drive your partner wild! We show you how

1. Feel fabulous underneath

Sure, we all love to shop for super-cute dresses and hot-to- trot heels.., but don’t overlook your knicker drawer, ladies! Investing in chic but slinky lingerie will give your partner a pleasant surprise.

2. Try a striptease

Don’t worry, you don’t have to hurl your undies across the room or flip upside down on a pole to be seductive. All you need to do is undress nice and slowly and have fun. Start by slowly pulling your hair out of a ponytail and using your fingers to mess it up a little. Then unbutton your shirt, or slowly unzip your dress.

3. Be touchy

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Nothing loosens things up like a massage, so why not treat each other to some bedroom pampering? How your partner likes to be touched during a massage can give clues to how they like to be touched during sex.

Make a rendezvous

If the idea of role-playing scares you, keep it light and fun. Even little things can add a new zing to a relations hip, so try’ putting aside a ‘date night’ and make an extra effort for each other. Create a new buzz, chat each other up again, and enjoy all the compliments that he showers you with.

5. Put the X in sex

Watching steamy films with your partner dramatically improves your chances of things heating up at home. Subliminal messages can make you aroused. That might not sound sexy, but just trust us

6.Squeeze in more smooching

Smooching, snogging, making out whatever you call it, kissing is just
great fun. What’s more, it plays an important role in your relationship, as it creates intimacy between you when you’re not having sex. Squeeze in a few during your week when he’s least expecting it, when you’re in the kitchen cooking dinner, when he walks through the door from work, or simply when you’re watching TV together on the sofa.

7. Get some smart advice

 Think a phone is just for calls and messages? Think again. Pioneering sex manual The Lovers’ Guide has launched its first app for Google android smart- phones, which promotes a healthy sex life as part of a healthy lifestyle. Each clip offers ‘how to’ advice, ratings for passion, difficulty and information about why it’s good for both of you.

8. Get healthy

A new study published in The Journal of Sexual Medicine has found that unhealthy lifestyle factors — such as lack of exercise, high alcohol consumption and smoking — are linked with sexual inactivity and even erectile dysfunction. So, it seems a healthy lifestyle equals a hot love life ... There’s an incentive to keep up a healthy diet and exercise regime if we ever needed one.

9. Get SMSing

Why not use everyday technology to have some fun? Create a sense of anticipation for you both by sending your partner a surprise — and slightly
suggestive — SMS during the day. It could be an affectionate thought, or something as simple as ‘can’t wait to see you later’ — but you’ll be amazed at the effect. Choose your timing carefully, though: he may want to drop everything he’s doing and rush home.

10. Just do it

Most importantly, remember to make time for sex. Arousal and orgasms form part of a response mechanism that can be less intense and reliable if not used regularly. If couples fail to invest in their relationship, it’ll deteriorate, regardless of whether they’ actually do anything wrong.