Relationships - Are You Sacrificing The Most?

In any relationship, such people will always give without any second thought. No relationship is equal give and take. Are You Sacrificing More - human beings are all different. What about that? No body bothers about my comfort. When we sacrifice we feel good because we feel worthy. In every relationship, both the partners make adjustments to make the relationship a success. It can also make us feel bad, if it goes on from one side and the other partner not even acknowledges that. I am only giving since years. 

 

The relationship thrives on them. If you sacrifice more, please stop and review your life I have my own life and desires. I am not getting anything in return. Having given up something always makes us feel good. Some of us are givers by our natural instinct. As the relationship progresses, such givers keep on sacrificing more and more to make the relationship work and keep the partner happy. 

 

Why Sacrifice- two people cannot relate and live together peacefully, if they set their own conditions of living. Any relationship that began with imbalances would not survive long if checks are not kept. Why am I being demanded to give again and again. They have to draw a common way and sacrifice their own hobbies, interests, and many other interests. Both give up many choices in life and try to contribute for the continuation of the relationship. 

 

Such thoughts slowly develop and destroy the relationship over period of time. Am I a sacrificial goat? Many adjustments have to be made to make a relationship succeed. Slowly the resentment may develop. The resentment sets in to the detriment of the relationship. Sacrifices are always called for in a healthy relationship. Why the world is becoming selfish?